Well thank you Literalman, and yes, that would’ve been a lot more charitable than straight up saying I’m going to Hell because I’m not going to mass on Sunday.
But, to be honest with you, I didn’t get triggered about what he said. I used to, but I don’t get triggered anymore, cause I found out when I was working on my triggers that when someone of faith (Whether it be Catholic, Christian, etc…) says “…or you’ll got to hell.” The intention was they mean well. I know in JT’s heart that he would never desire for anyone to go to hell, no good-hearted hueman being desires for anyone to go to hell. But, in his mind, he was doing me a favor, because by him saying that I would go to hell, the hope would be that I wouldn’t go to hell and go back to Sunday Mass to avoid going to hell, because as a Catholic they have a Sunday obligation. Again, I go by intention, so the intention was good. There was no ill-intent mean’t by what he said. But, I didn’t get triggered, cause number 1, when you get triggered it usually means that whomever triggered me is displaying a behavior that I do not like about myself. I don’t like the feeling that I could potentially be going to hell. So what I did, was I healed that trigger, and not only did I heal it, I also acknowledged and integrated that part of myself that I didn’t like. And the other reason why it didn’t trigger me was because, I don’t believe that there’s an actual place called Hell. I think that Earth is Hell, but I do not believe that Hell is an actual place with fire in it, and everyone’s suffering, and there’s demons hurting people down there….nothing like that. I mean, heck, even my good Catholic friend is constantly telling me, both directly and indirectly depending on what she says, that I’m going to hell, and I’m still her friend cause I know she means well, and intention is everything with me.
However, thank you very much Literalman, I appreciate the kind words and the wisdom behind your words. Because you saw how someone could misconstrue that as something that is bad, especially with the way it was worded. So, I do appreciate that you chimed in and reminded us all that there’s no need for judgement here. We all want the truth, that’s really all all of us want at the end of the day, is the truth. So thank you for that.
But, I guess he’s done answering my questions, which is fine. I innerstand. And @jaytea God bliss you! I wish you well.