Yes! Thank you for your perspective!
That’s crazy that your ancestors were punished for being Baptized as adults. The Catholic Church has Baptized Adults who have recently come to the knowledge of the Gospel since the beginning. I guess if one is raised in a particular community and they are not following the rules and customs of a particular community, then there are consequences (wrong or right). We Baptize babies, because we believe Christ is truly working in us and that it is not just a work of men (as some Protestants claim it to be). If one does not believe in regenerative Baptism, then they usually downplay the significance of this gift (Acts 2:38). And we should want our children to become adoptive members of Christ’s body.
Do you know if UB and UBs “dedicate” children? I believe they do, but didn’t know if that is common all across the board.
In the writings of the Early Church Fathers, Origen (in 245 A.D.) and Cyprian (in 253 A.D. write about baptizing infants. St. Augustine wrote about the custom in the early 400’s A.D. And they talk about it as being from the Apostles.
And Jesus says in Matthew 19:14, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them; for to such belongs the kingdom of Heaven.”
Bishop Fulton J. Sheen made an analogy between Baptism and the metamorphosis of a caterpillar. A caterpillar is born a caterpillar and is reborn into a butterfly, but without the sun (or The Son in the case of Baptism), this transformation seldom can occur. If the caterpillar is raised in the midst of frost, she will likely die, either as a caterpillar or even as a butterfly.
St. Irenaeus of Lyons made the analogy in 180 A.D., “Just as dry wheat without moisture cannot become one dough or one loaf, so also, we who are many connot be made one in Christ Jesus, without the water from Heaven. Just as dry earth cannot bring forth fruit unless it receive moisture, so also we, being at first a dry tree, can never bring forth fruit unto life, without the voluntary rain from above.”
So, while The Bible, nor the Early Church Fathers instruct us to dedicate our children, as Parents we should dedicate ourselves to raising our children in faith, through love (which, historically, includes Baptizing them).
Both Catholic, Protestants, and Orthodox Christians have all done unChristian things in the name of religion. It makes me shake my head sometimes. We would say that forcing someone to convert and get Baptized by force is not good, but giving a child a gift (the Holy Spirit, Salvific grace, and faith in Christ) is good. And truthfully “dedicating” children, as some Protestants do, is also good, but not as good as giving them the real thing.
I understand the theological reasons why Anabaptists do not not believe in Baptizing infants, however prior to the 16th Century, most Christians did not hold their theology, nor did majority of reformed Protestants of that time.
I am not saying these things to mock or slam individual who hold this view of Baptism, because getting Baptized is better than not getting Baptized (even if it is later in life. Thanks : )
Oh, and welcome to the forum! Glad you are here.